Counselling to the studnt who have been pregnated in order to back at schoool

A teenager is a young person who age falls within the range from thirteen through nineteen (13-19) they are called teenager because their age number ends in teen. Also considered young adults that mark the change from childhood to adulthood (en Wikipedia.org/wiki/adolescence).

A teenager is a noun that refers to personal aged from 13-19 years of age. At this stage is when a boy or a girl faces the adolescence transition. The transition involves biological, psychological and social changes.

Teenager is a personal between the age 13-19 inclusive the one set of puberty and maturity not fully developed ( free dictionary.com/teenagers).

Teenager pregnancy is defined as pregnancy that occurs in women below the age of 20. It is common that at this age the girl has not complete her education and is completely dependent upon her parents thus an able to provide for the unborn child. Teenage pregnancies rate various from one country to another depending on factors such as access to contraceptive methods, sex education and sexuality activity.

Pregnancy counseling is a form of psychological counseling that provides information and support regarding pregnancy. This type of counseling assists the pregnant woman who is considering choices regarding the continuation of her pregnancy in. It the counselor impartially present the patient with her option that usually counselor should know local and national laws governing woman’s pregnancy choice, especially those concerning adolescent and their rights to make such decision.

A teacher will handle such teenager problem through making support on her decision in the counseling session. By doing so it will help the pregnant teenager to be satisfactory on her responsibility for her decision of being pregnant. Also through support making to the pregnant teenager it will make her to appreciate that the decision she has make is an appropriate choice. Because most of the pregnant teenager influenced by anxiety, high shame things may led to the drop out from the school. But through support making will make the teenager continuing at school.

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Through creating positive supportive relationships with school staff in order to ensure effective schooling of pregnant student, I will promote the staff members to pay a positive relationship with such student who have pregnancy at school. Form this positive relationship with such student influence competence to her schooling effectively regardless to her state of having pregnancy. This implies every teacher around the specific school should be well encouraged to create positive relationship to pregnant student, for instance telling her on concentrating on academic matters while taking pregnancy issues be under normal circumstance of human life. This make the student who have pregnancy feel comfortable to her schooling effective out of afraid been hated by the staff members at school environment.

Through providing most important social work to her stay at school as the teacher who is responsible on counseling and creating comfortable learning environment to the learner who have pregnancy to ensure effective schooling. I have to give her some important social work to stay at school for instance giving manual wok like cleaning school environment and general cleanness the school environment, influencing her on participating social entertainment and academic social group like debates, morning speech and clubs as well as motivating her on observing football and netball for mind pleasure. This let the pregnant student feel comfortable been part and parcel of the school.

In order to council a students who have pregnancy I should clarify her choice and feelings. For example a pregnant students may feel idle unimportant in the society and may make harsh decision in her life. After recognizing her feeling is where now i can start to council her. Also the students may have so many choices due to the possession of pregnancy. For example the student may decide on continuing the pregnancy and rising the child herself, continuing the pregnancy and placing the child for adoption or terminating the pregnancy. Due to the identification of the choice and feelings of the students with a pregnancy is where now; I can show her the reality advantages and the consequence of her choice. If the choice will be convict-able it can agree with her option but if not I should neglect with the reasons that may make her to continue with studies.

It is determined that about 400,000 teens aged from 15-19 years give birth every years  in united state and the teens birth rate remains the highest in the developed world. In African countries it is approximately double (800,000) teens aged 14-19 are pregnancy every year as it is in Tanzania about 13-19 years are teenagers are pregnant and this occurs as because of life circumstance based on life difficulties from their families and improper guidance and counseling responsibility of parents to their youth, issue concerning reproductive and preventive measures from been a pregnant. This is rounded and bound of the cultural determinant of African families on addressing and spent time to talk with their children about sexual engagement in early teen ages and its impact, and hence mass drop out from schools, low academic achievement, feel loneliness and sometimes increase stigma and discrimination to the fellow students. The following are the possible ways which I will apply to handle the problem of pregnancy student so as to ensure her schooling effectively.

I will reduce anxiety to a student so that she can proceed schooling with pregnant. Because always the pregnant students feel guilt to proceed schooling while she has pregnancy. Due to such thing I will help the student through mental and emotional distress counseling as well as provision of practical advice regarding the pregnancy. Also I will work with a student to develop a plan of informing the parent about the pregnancy and what she could do about the pregnancy corresponding to asking parent to attend in the counseling session. This will help the parent to be aware with the problem although some parents might react with anger, and may be disappointed to attend in the counseling session after discovering her child have the pregnancy due to the frustration and shock.

I will provide supportive decision to a student that will bring changes on the negative attitude toward the pregnancy like negative attitude of aborting the fetus. Because always pregnant students tend to abort the fetus after conceiving due to the various reasons like fearing harassment from his/her parent or making abortion in order to proceed schooling. By doing so a student will change his own negative attitude toward aborting the fetus and molding the behavior of self esteem and self-confidence toward the pregnancy and seeing the pregnancy as a normal thing to her. This will led pregnant student to continue schooling.

I will increase reinforcement especially extrinsic rewards to the pregnant students by doing this I will promote her ability to come at school and listening the subject matter in the class effectively by influence this, she will be capable to knowing and increase sense of worth to what as been learn t since the students with pregnant lack enough time to think about education at all, and put much emphasize and concentrate about how she could handle that problem so my work here as teacher is to influence her towards performing well in the class by increasing rewarding behavior in every good responding.

I will increase motivation to her by ensuring that my student who have pregnant knows the reason of being at school by attributing towards her goals achievement in education, by give her more task and supervising with high consideration towards her performance, and return back feedback on time to measure her strength and weakness in performing academic task, so this will accelerate her capability towards effective learning through school faced with many symptoms in which school overlook about her in turn she will perform well oh her academic profile.

Non judgment altitude I must approach the situation of the student and not integrating a judgment, it involves being an open minded. I have to avoid to make decision for the student but I must direct a way for the student but I must direct a way for the student to judge herself about the situation she faced because student have her own view point’s concern of her situation. So I have to direct the student toward her decision she make in fill that the school environment is the suitable place and comfortable to live and study.

I will encourage the student that pregnancy is normal things in the life of human being and every woman will pass through. Therefore the encouragement will focus on making her caring the pregnancy up to the period of bearing and that all are the will of God, This will make her concentrate on studying and feel that their study is their best and child’s future.

I will impart knowledge and facts about various options and their implication basing on student counseling such as parenting knowledge by continue with pregnancy and then raise the child, adoption which denotes continue with the pregnancy and give the body to another family. From these knowledge of option and its implication promote to the teenager student effective schooling.

 its true that during the period of teenage the youth faced with many temptation towards sexual desire from these youth found in the school so this truly act as the challenge to both boys and girls since their cognitive and physiological understand of their body and self control not yet grow to ensure that they inter in sexual intercourse and effectively perform the academic task hence these students needs much support when they faced with pregnant and other social problem the teachers had to make sure that they show positive relationship and show great support towards their academic performance, but not dismiss them from the school compound by doing so the social evils, poverty, will increase at high peak.

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